What is tantric massage and how does it work

 A gentle, attentive, and real touch.

Tantric massage is a loving touch, full of attention and presence, with no fixed form or result. Tantra massage is done with the heart in mind. Tantric massage involves the whole body and erogenous zones can be massaged. Of course, it is always necessary to respect (mutual) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage that also affects sexual energy. Tantra massage is performed on an equal footing and creates an intimate bond between the guide and the recipient of the massage. Mentally, physiologically, at the level of the heart, and sometimes even at the level of the heart and soul. The purpose of tantric massage is to "bring" the recipient into a natural and blissful state. The result is often excellent physical and emotional well-being. The receiver is usually extremely calm, flows wonderfully, and ends pleasantly in the heart and in the higher spheres.

The first and most important piece of advice is to be prepared.

Our first piece of advice, which may seem obvious, is that it is very important to give a tantric massage from the heart. And that you can receive the touch not only of your body but also of your heart. Plus, you have an experience of intimacy. Before you can offer or receive a tantric massage, you must be able to be personal with yourself.

Don't try to achieve a specific goal.

According to Southampton Tantric Massage, Tantric massage is never the same. You never know how it will end. It's not about the method or the intended sequence of the massage; it's about what's relevant and important. What is the most urgent requirement of the recipient at the moment? What is beneficial for him? Love knows what to do and always reacts accordingly. As a result, the massage will be exactly what is required. It is enough that the provider is present and continues to tune in to your heart with vibrations of love. You cannot assume that the divine has a purpose of its own. As a result, tantric massage often takes an unexpected turn. Everything is part of the bigger picture. For example, a tantric massage does not have to be “beautiful” and end in pleasure. A "bad" massage can be the beginning of something wonderful.

 

Be careful with your surroundings.

Of course, we have known this for a long time, but after the exposure of #MeToo in the field of tantric massage, some new developments have appeared. Masseuses (we don't hear much about masseurs) who use "clients" to satisfy their own desires. This, of course, has nobody to do with tantric massage. It is always necessary to ensure the safety of both the recipient and the donor. Always put the love melody first.

Agree in advance.

Everyone except the enlightened has limitations. This is both human and important. Therefore, both the provider and the recipient must consider your limits in advance. Allow sufficient welcome and preparation, and communication with your massage lover/partner. Agree in advance about physical and mental limitations. It is a myth that tantric massage should always be performed nude. It is also possible to work with (hot) oil in clothes, but this is more difficult. It is also a myth that tantric massage should focus on sexual areas of the body such as breasts and sex, which are rubbish. We simultaneously did and received numerous tantric massages for the head only. In fact, every cell looks sensual when exposed and you will be amazed.